by Brooke Hender | Jan 25, 2023 | Behaviour, Communication, Planning, Taking Action
When something isn’t working in our life then it can be very easy to feel or believe that it will never work. This applies to both personal and professional situations. When another relationship fails then we can believe that no relationship will work. We can...
by Brooke Hender | Oct 17, 2022 | Behaviour, Habits, Music
Habits – From Good to Bad What was once a suggestion became an intention which became a habit. That habit stayed with me and became part of my identity, it was ‘who I am’. I then discovered that it wasn’t helpful now. Times change. We change....
by Brooke Hender | Mar 16, 2022 | Behaviour, Self Esteem, Thoughts
Comparisons. One of the common issues that I work on with clients is with making comparisons – comparing themselves with others. That’s not the issue. It is the conclusions that we draw from that comparison that is the issue. All too commonly it is yet...
by Brooke Hender | Dec 5, 2021 | Behaviour, Communication, Thoughts
I send out 1 or 2 newsletters a month. The moment I press ‘send’ I get what Brené Brown calls a “vulnerability hangover”. Have I shared too much? Will it come across as self-indulgent when I write to provide context, understanding and realisation? Immediately I start...
by Brooke Hender | Nov 29, 2021 | Behaviour, Mindfulness, Self Esteem, Thoughts
I recently returned from a holiday in Scotland. I didn’t go there to discover anything, find myself, or focus on something specific. I didn’t go there to read about therapy, or take stock of my life. I went on holiday to have a nice time, relax, go somewhere new, have...
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