Controlling Expectations
I could make this a really short blog. “Controlling Expectations - You can’t” There. Does that work? Too simplistic? And whose expectations? Ah, good question. That’s a really good place to start so I’ll start there. Can I control my expectations of myself? Yes. Can I...
Playing the odds…
I’m fascinated by what things make a big difference to my life. During lockdown I was no longer able to swim regularly as I was used to. I also discovered something called ‘snacking’ which meant that every time I was in the kitchen I would grab something ‘small’ to...
Well it’s been a long time…
I haven’t written a blog for a long time now. In fact the last blog I wrote and posted was in December last year (2019). It’s not unheard of is it? Blogs are started with enthusiasm and after a while they so often just fade away. I’d like to say that that didn’t...
Shortwave: A Love Story
I find it fascinating when something I used to do regularly I suddenly choose to stop doing. And then there's the decision to start again. I do this with many things in my life. Of course, there must be a reason. Everything we do has a reason. And a positive reason...
If only…
I’m not myself. Metaphorically of course ‘I’ and ‘self’ are two different things however that’s not what I’m talking about. No, what I mean is that I am not myself at the moment I’m writing this. I’m not the person I believe myself to be. Indeed I would go...
Swimming. Lessons.
This year I decided that I wanted to change. I wanted to be a better swimmer. I had a lot of beliefs about swimming - it’s hard, I don’t enjoy it, I’m just not a natural swimmer, it’s just something that others are good at. I can't swim well. It's just who I...
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